One of the most hot topics in girl-gossip is “that boy!”
You met someone in a recent reunion, you start talking to them randomly, exchanging numbers, now it kind of feels nice, you like talking to him, you feel time passes so quickly when you are with him.Ofcourse it feels good, to have someone who could hear you, whom you can talk to. Relatable?
You tell me half of the world population is boys. How can we not talk to them? Come-on, you tell me you are not gender-biased, you tell me he makes you feel good about yourself, he uplifts your mood.
Who said you shouldn’t talk to boys? Its all about maintaining the “Emotional Distancing“.
you know why? You’re already practicing social distancing in these days of Corona Virus Pandemic. Why emotional distancing? its because:
Everything disastrous starts with Innocence, Pure Innocence.
If you don’t understand this today, don’t worry this will make sense one day!
There is no “narrow-mindedness” in it. You need to break the stigmatization of being single. My university fellows usually ask me, ” why still single? couldn’t find someone?” The reason is “All that glitters is not gold” A good guy isn’t the one who gives you temporary satisfaction, attention and distracts you from your goals.
You need to understand “lust can never be comparable to love!” Your time is precious. This is your one life. You can’t waste it first half life wasting with him and then spending other half life crying that he’s gone.
Stop attaching yourself to people unhealthily. you are a complete functional individual. your worth is not linked to anyone.Someone’s coming in your life and leaving doesn’t makes or breaks you!
Stop chasing boys! You are way more worth it.Don’t worry you won’t die single.Nature has a perfect plan! you will get the one who is perfect for you just at the perfect timings. Till then, keep working on yourself.
Secondly, if you are in a relationship, Understand that I’m not judging you! who the hell am i to judge you! This is your one life. You don’t owe anything to me. Fuck me! I’m no one. Its your life just make sure you spend it making each moment count! ❤
-Love, Myda!
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